Monthly Archives: February 2026
Part 2–Lessons Learned
1. Personalizing systemic failure harms the patient, not the system My initial reaction—feeling dismissed, devalued, and invisible—is deeply human. But the lesson I draw is that taking a systemwide breakdown personally only injures one’s own health. The system does not … Continue reading
When the System Breaks Down: A Patient’s Experience and the Question of What We Can Do
What’s the last thing I learned? I recently underwent an endoscopy, and I’m happy to report that the initial examination looked promising! I need to wait for the lab results to get the final confirmation. My doctor assured me that … Continue reading
The Question I Don’t Like to Be Asked and Why?
It goes beyond my understanding. I dislike it when people ask if I believe in God. The issue is that they often don’t accept a simple “yes” or “no.” They want an explanation of my beliefs and reasoning. The truth … Continue reading
How Has a Failure, or Apparent Failure, Set Me Up for Later Success?
I’ve had many setbacks and moments when things didn’t go the way I hoped. But I’ve never truly considered those moments “failures.” If I were all‑knowing, I would never falter—so when something doesn’t work out the first time, I simply … Continue reading
The Beginning Sentence of My Autobiography
Enter into the deepest chambers of my soul.
The Quiet Ache of Becoming
Introduction There are moments in life when the noise quiets. It is then that we can hear the deeper questions we’ve been carrying all along. Questions about purpose, impact, and the mysterious longing to leave something behind that outlives our … Continue reading
My Comfort Arsenal: The Three Essentials That Keep Me Grounded
There are three essentials I genuinely couldn’t imagine living without: my heater, flossers, and nail clippers. Each one plays a surprisingly vital role in my daily comfort and well-being. My heater is absolutely indispensable during the colder months—fall, winter, and … Continue reading
What Authenticity Looks Like
Introduction Authenticity is a word people use often, but rarely live out. We say we want honesty, transparency, and real connection — yet so many hide behind masks, strategies, and performances. For me, authenticity isn’t a trend or a personality … Continue reading
Do I Believe in Fate or Destiny?
Fate, Destiny, and the Design of Our Becoming When people ask whether I believe in fate or destiny, I don’t choose one over the other. I choose both — not out of indecision, but because the deeper I look at … Continue reading
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