There’s one thing that still stirs a deep nervousness in me: getting on an airplane. It isn’t fear born from experience—it’s the unfamiliarity of a journey I’ve never taken. Flying feels like a bold, almost impossible human achievement. It seems as though it shouldn’t exist. Yet, millions do it every day. I know that’s fear speaking, but that’s how it looks to me.
Part of my hesitation comes from an unwillingness to trust the current generation navigating complex machines thousands of feet in the air. It feels like a risk I’m not ready to take. Stories of crashes and planes falling from the sky have become so commonplace that they barely stir public attention anymore. I can’t help but wonder if future incidents will only increase.
So what would it take for me to step onto a plane? Absolute surrender. Not the passive kind. It’s the kind that stretches faith. It challenges long‑held beliefs. It asks me to release control in a way I never have before. I imagine that facing this fear would sharpen my intuition. It would heighten my awareness. It would teach me something profound about trust—both in my inner being and in the unseen forces that guide us.
And afterward, I’d still hope the plane doesn’t crash. LOL. Unless, of course, my awareness had shifted so deeply that I now understood something I never knew before.
I used to be afraid of flying which I almost missed a trip to Hawaii because of it. Oddly enough, I dated a guy who flew corporate. Have a few friends who were pilots in the Air Force. Then, commercial ones too. All of them have rigid schedules of rest and diet.
But, what did it is that the destination became more important than the transportation. Now, I fly to new places that I never been solo.
Took pics of NYC from the air flying out HPN (Westchester County AirPort) to CLT (Charlotte Douglas). Then DFW.
Thank you for sharing! I hope I will conjure up the courage one day!
You’re welcome. It’s safer to fly than drive. It took time to work through it without pressure.
Hope you do.
Thanks